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A Guide to the Sacrament of Confession

How to prepare for and make a good Confession — from examination of conscience to receiving absolution.

The Sacrament of Penance and Reconciliation is the ordinary means by which mortal sins committed after Baptism are forgiven. Regular confession of venial sins is also a pious practice that strengthens the soul.

Steps

  1. 1

    Examination of conscience

    Using the Ten Commandments or a printed guide, review your thoughts, words, and actions since your last confession. Be honest and thorough.

  2. 2

    Contrition

    Arouse genuine sorrow for having offended God — not merely fear of punishment. Firm purpose of amendment: intend not to sin again.

  3. 3

    Enter the confessional

    Greet the priest. Make the Sign of the Cross: Bless me, Father, for I have sinned. It has been [time] since my last confession.

  4. 4

    Confess your sins

    Tell your sins clearly, including kind and number for mortal sins. Avoid unnecessary detail; stick to what is needed for absolution.

  5. 5

    Listen to the priest

    He may offer counsel and will give you a penance (prayers or acts of charity to perform).

  6. 6

    Act of contrition

    Pray an Act of Contrition aloud: O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended Thee…

  7. 7

    Absolution

    The priest pronounces the words of absolution. Your sins are forgiven. Leave in peace.

  8. 8

    Perform your penance

    Complete the penance given as soon as possible.